Conroy wrote:
You can list all the things Barton has done but the fact that Terry slept with his best friends wife will trump them all. Only Giggs sleeping with his brothers wife is worse imo. You have to be one very very nasty piece of work to even contemplate that let alone do it.
She wasn't his wife. She wasn't his girlfriend. She was his ex-girlfriend. He was a Man City player, she was living in Surrey.
Were Terry and Bridge best friends? I've got no idea.
The main betrayal from Terry was towards his wife. But TBH I don't know a thing about their marriage and I don't know a thing about her.
The affair is something that both Terry and the woman deny.
And on the other end of the lurid stories, according to one paper Bridge was the 4th CFC player to be with her and Terry was the 5th.
At least you acknowledge that what Giggs did was worse. But the fallout from Giggs's affair has been practically zero, AFAICT.
I don't know if you like films. Most people do. My favourite film star has always been Schwarzenegger. He may not have been a great actor, but films like Predator, Total Recall and Terminator were fitted on him so well it didn't even begin to matter. I don't know if his autobiography will spill about this, but one of the previous biographies on him said that he had a special liking for doing the wives or girlfriends of friends, associates, people who he met in the street, rivals. I can't say I like that trait, it demeans him, the women, pretty much everyone involved and is just plain nasty, but superstars live such different and weird lives that ordinary people can't really relate. I don't like that rumour about Arnie, but at the end of the day WTF has it got to do with me, or anyone not involved?
If you've never contemplated doing a friend's wife or GF, then your friends must have some ugly partners.
I can understand Wayne Bridge hating John Terry. But I can't really understand why most of England has taken on Bridge's hatred as their own.
My CFC heroes (a quick list I'll compile now) are Kerry Dixon, Ken Bates, Roman Abramovich, Jose Mourinho, Arjen Robben, John Terry, and Didier Drogba.
Bates, RA, Mourinho, all left their wives for other women. I think Kerry was divorced, but I really don't know or care. No idea about Didier or Robben whatsoever. TBH their
personal lives really are of no interest to me. I'm far more disappointed that Jose believes in god than I am about him dumping his Mrs.
Two of the most popular figures in English football are Bobby Moore and Bobby Robson. Moore left his wife and kids for an air stewardess and Robson supposedly took one of his affairs and did her in the centre circle. Is that going to make you cry if you see the Bobby Moore statue at Wembley, or are you going to send your virtual thanks to him for winning the World Cup for England?
Are RL players different? Only because they get less women throwing themselves at them and have less money to follow their whims. I know of two figures in RL who could easily have got themselves into Bobby Robson type headlines had RL had anything of a profile.
Maybe cheating with a friend's ex is so sensitive to you that it does trump the serial violence and general c***ish behaviour from Barton. I honestly can't see how though. Our world views must be so different that we'd never begin to understand each other.