Nature of the beast I’m afraid with players , managers and club owners.
You will never get a lifetime commital, and we shouldn’t expect one. Give them a contract and honour it. Once talks start , if they show no signs of signing then move on.
Don’t want Lam to leave but he can’t on one hand say 5 year project and on the other , stall on signing an extension.
If Lam doesn’t sign, and if I was Derek I’d ask Dawsons to make the biggest humble pie and ship it off to Worsley , to Rowley, and ask him come home.