It's all part of the fun, being friendly with someone then stabbing them in the back and calling them for everything.
Best just to have your own opinion and not open yourself to a backstabbing by siding with others.
I have to say its not been the same since St Dan (and Matty Smith) left. It was fun us all ganging up on him. I guess he must have gone to high school and forgot about us lot and his beloved Matty.